Dear diary: So many people have told me, “Please let me know how I can help. Whatever you need, I’ve got you.” And then they disappear the moment I say I need help coming up with a way to cover my chair. That’s exactly why I was scared to fundraise in the first place. I’m a grown adult asking for help online, and I know people see that through their own lens. Do they think I want to be crying on camera? Do they think I enjoy being seen like this? I know I come across as “strong” and “resilient”…